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after years of masturbating i cant cumming

nelysses

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I masturbated for years and was addicted. I'm trying to thaw now (also, I've gained 15 kilos in the last month. I don't know if that's related).
I'm intimate with my girlfriend (excluding penetration), but I can never cumming. How can I solve this?
The problem is, sometimes even when we're outside, my pants get wet just being around her. But in the end, I can't ***.
 

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How the heck have you gained 15 kilos in a month??

Are you eating Lokum, Tel Kadayif, Baklava, Künefe and Fırın Sütluç 24 hours a day, 7 days a week??
 

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I masturbated for years and was addicted. I'm trying to thaw now (also, I've gained 15 kilos in the last month. I don't know if that's related).
I'm intimate with my girlfriend (excluding penetration), but I can never cumming. How can I solve this?
The problem is, sometimes even when we're outside, my pants get wet just being around her. But in the end, I can't ***.
Hi Nellysses,
If it's any consolation,with age and familiarity things will gradually improve.
 

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How the heck have you gained 15 kilos in a month??

Are you eating Lokum, Tel Kadayif, Baklava, Künefe and Fırın Sütluç 24 hours a day, 7 days a week??
I really don't know. My body gains weight very quickly. And I lose it just as quickly. I can gain 15 kilos in a month and then lose 12 kilos again, for example. The problem is, while it's so easy to gain weight, to lose it I really need to avoid using even a single cheat.
Hi Nellysses,
If it's any consolation,with age and familiarity things will gradually improve.
I'm 23 years old. The problem is, I was fapping all my high school and early twenties. Now I feel like I'm finally facing the consequences. I'm not enjoying it enough.
 

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I really don't know. My body gains weight very quickly. And I lose it just as quickly. I can gain 15 kilos in a month and then lose 12 kilos again, for example. The problem is, while it's so easy to gain weight, to lose it I really need to avoid using even a single cheat.

I'm 23 years old. The problem is, I was fapping all my high school and early twenties. Now I feel like I'm finally facing the consequences. I'm not enjoying it enough.
Did you take the covid vaccine? That might be it
 

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Hi Nelysses,
"I'm 23 years old. The problem is, I was fapping all my high school and early twenties. Now I feel like I'm finally facing the consequences. I'm not enjoying it enough."I think you have a guilt complex about this,what you describe is not unusual at all,if you don't have a partner,it's a healthy outlet.
 

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I masturbated for years and was addicted. I'm trying to thaw now (also, I've gained 15 kilos in the last month. I don't know if that's related).
I'm intimate with my girlfriend (excluding penetration), but I can never cumming. How can I solve this?
The problem is, sometimes even when we're outside, my pants get wet just being around her. But in the end, I can't ***.
Quit consuming pornography (if you are) and masturbation for a month, then report back.
 

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I masturbated for years and was addicted. I'm trying to thaw now (also, I've gained 15 kilos in the last month. I don't know if that's related).
I'm intimate with my girlfriend (excluding penetration), but I can never cumming. How can I solve this?
The problem is, sometimes even when we're outside, my pants get wet just being around her. But in the end, I can't ***.
See a urologist.
 
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