"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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After one night stand

popsickle

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Hey everyone,

After a recent breakup, I'm finally back in the game and it's great!
Essentially I met this girl through a friend earlier this year and thought she was cute. Good thing is there was a party coming up at her place to which I was invited (I'm good friends with her roommate). I played it cool at the party and eventually we ended up making out in her room and she invited me to stay over. While hooking up though, she held back when things got more heated up so I just assumed she didn't want it on the first night. Anyway, I left during the night leaving a note.
She contacted me the next day and I suggested we hang out. We went out for drinks, everything went smoothly until I had to leave for an emergency. We kissed in front of her house and I left. About a week later, I invited her over to make up for it and we had a chill night. I cooked dinner, we had some beers, chatted etc and ended up having sex. And again. Then she stayed over and eventually left in the morning.
Now my question is, what's next? I'm not gonna lie I was kind of expecting a message the next day or something but I haven't heard back since. What's the move if I wanna keep doing that kind of thing while keeping it casual?

Thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Zarky

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she's probably waiting for you to contact her?

And by the way, sex on the third date is hardly a "one night stand."
 

popsickle

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Fair enough, sorry about the misuse of the word. I referred to it as a one night stand because I didn't really intend for it to be anything more. But now I'd like to get a casual thing going. I kind of did all the work - asking her over etc - wouldn't I come off as too clingy by getting in contact now?
 
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