"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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After one night stand

popsickle

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Hey everyone,

After a recent breakup, I'm finally back in the game and it's great!
Essentially I met this girl through a friend earlier this year and thought she was cute. Good thing is there was a party coming up at her place to which I was invited (I'm good friends with her roommate). I played it cool at the party and eventually we ended up making out in her room and she invited me to stay over. While hooking up though, she held back when things got more heated up so I just assumed she didn't want it on the first night. Anyway, I left during the night leaving a note.
She contacted me the next day and I suggested we hang out. We went out for drinks, everything went smoothly until I had to leave for an emergency. We kissed in front of her house and I left. About a week later, I invited her over to make up for it and we had a chill night. I cooked dinner, we had some beers, chatted etc and ended up having sex. And again. Then she stayed over and eventually left in the morning.
Now my question is, what's next? I'm not gonna lie I was kind of expecting a message the next day or something but I haven't heard back since. What's the move if I wanna keep doing that kind of thing while keeping it casual?

Thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Zarky

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she's probably waiting for you to contact her?

And by the way, sex on the third date is hardly a "one night stand."
 

popsickle

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Fair enough, sorry about the misuse of the word. I referred to it as a one night stand because I didn't really intend for it to be anything more. But now I'd like to get a casual thing going. I kind of did all the work - asking her over etc - wouldn't I come off as too clingy by getting in contact now?
 
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