“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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After one night stand

popsickle

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Hey everyone,

After a recent breakup, I'm finally back in the game and it's great!
Essentially I met this girl through a friend earlier this year and thought she was cute. Good thing is there was a party coming up at her place to which I was invited (I'm good friends with her roommate). I played it cool at the party and eventually we ended up making out in her room and she invited me to stay over. While hooking up though, she held back when things got more heated up so I just assumed she didn't want it on the first night. Anyway, I left during the night leaving a note.
She contacted me the next day and I suggested we hang out. We went out for drinks, everything went smoothly until I had to leave for an emergency. We kissed in front of her house and I left. About a week later, I invited her over to make up for it and we had a chill night. I cooked dinner, we had some beers, chatted etc and ended up having sex. And again. Then she stayed over and eventually left in the morning.
Now my question is, what's next? I'm not gonna lie I was kind of expecting a message the next day or something but I haven't heard back since. What's the move if I wanna keep doing that kind of thing while keeping it casual?

Thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Zarky

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she's probably waiting for you to contact her?

And by the way, sex on the third date is hardly a "one night stand."
 

popsickle

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Fair enough, sorry about the misuse of the word. I referred to it as a one night stand because I didn't really intend for it to be anything more. But now I'd like to get a casual thing going. I kind of did all the work - asking her over etc - wouldn't I come off as too clingy by getting in contact now?
 
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