"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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After months of improving myself...

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I come to the conclusion that girls are not interested in me.

1. I'm a solid 8 outta 10 (IMO)

2. Funny

3. Confident

4. Intelligent

I got rid of my shyness. I approach HBs without thinking twice. But girls aren't being well receptive.

At least I been with a few girls sexually in my life, so I'm not a virgin. But I'm officially out of the dating game. I will only care about myself. I'll bang a few drunk girls whenever I'm horny, but I'm never trying to start a relationship again.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Julian

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woe is me.
 

00Kevin

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Originally posted by Eighth Passenger
I come to the conclusion that girls are not interested in me.

1. I'm a solid 8 outta 10 (IMO)

2. Funny

3. Confident

4. Intelligent

I got rid of my shyness. I approach HBs without thinking twice. But girls aren't being well receptive.

At least I been with a few girls sexually in my life, so I'm not a virgin. But I'm officially out of the dating game. I will only care about myself. I'll bang a few drunk girls whenever I'm horny, but I'm never trying to start a relationship again.
just stay clear of americanized chicks. they are worthless.
 

FreeStyleZ

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sounds like me.. i fit everything on that list too, but u can throw in tall (6'4), and the girls still arent receptive of me.
 

Create Reality

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00Kevin: What the hell is 'Americanized' suppose to mean?

Eighth: Dating is a numbers game. Of all the 7 billion people on this rock, half are women. Out of those half, about 20% are gonna be the age you want, right? That gives us 700 million.

What im ****ing saying is get over it. Maybe the reason girls aren't receptive is because you keep frequenting the same places?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Create Reality
00Kevin: What the hell is 'Americanized' suppose to mean?
Go to this site: http://nomarriage.com
The owner of that site has bitter opinions, but he's telling the truth about American/Americanized women.
 

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Originally posted by Eighth Passenger
I come to the conclusion that girls are not interested in me.

1. I'm a solid 8 outta 10 (IMO)

2. Funny

3. Confident

4. Intelligent

I got rid of my shyness. I approach HBs without thinking twice. But girls aren't being well receptive.

Maybe you're not as cool as you think. It's good to think you are but alot of people overrate themselves. Maybe you're one of them.
 

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Re: Re: After months of improving myself...

Originally posted by Fatality
Maybe you're not as cool as you think. It's good to think you are but alot of people overrate themselves. Maybe you're one of them.
Everybody has their faults...including myself...but I should get attention from HB7's and up. I'm always getting attention from some ugly b1tch that knows no one else would touch her with a 10 foot pole. I don't expect supermodels to date me...
 

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hey man... dont get so stressed out.. just let things flow for awhile... you cant win all of them. take thnigs easy, chill with your mates, dont worry about getting any girls or relationships, if it happens it happens. :D live for the moment.
It is never worth it to jump through hoops and to put a lot of effort into getting or keeping ***** if all you want is sex. ***** is NEVER worth a lot of effort. Just do what you want to do with your time. If ***** wants to come along, great. If not, just tell her to get lost. If you can get ***** with very little effort, then great. But if not, pass on her and wait for another woman to come along. Sex is just a commodity. Spend your time and energy on making money, starting a business, or travel.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Maybe your just trying too hard. I took the summer off in regards to girls, read lots of articles on this site and now I'm having better luck than I was. I worked out and just focused on self improvement and activities that I enjoyed that didn't necessarily involve girls.

But really just take some time off and read every bit of info you can on this site. I used to approach with very little success before but now even if I don't get a number I feel good just for approaching. Do a search on pook, bondjamesbond, grey fox and inspirationman just to name a few. That's my 2 cents.
 

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Yeah, i posted in frustration. I'm gonna concentrate one 'me' and try again when i feel up to it. if a HB just so happens enter my life anytime, then cool.
 

jakeyboy

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thats the way to go mate. well said.
 

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Could it be you're going after the gals who aren't interested in you, and ignoring those who are? Or you're not following the flow the right way when a gal is interested?

Read Disciple's posts in the "Tips" section, and you may find the problem in there.
 
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