"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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After months of improving myself...

Eighth Passenger

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I come to the conclusion that girls are not interested in me.

1. I'm a solid 8 outta 10 (IMO)

2. Funny

3. Confident

4. Intelligent

I got rid of my shyness. I approach HBs without thinking twice. But girls aren't being well receptive.

At least I been with a few girls sexually in my life, so I'm not a virgin. But I'm officially out of the dating game. I will only care about myself. I'll bang a few drunk girls whenever I'm horny, but I'm never trying to start a relationship again.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Julian

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woe is me.
 

00Kevin

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Originally posted by Eighth Passenger
I come to the conclusion that girls are not interested in me.

1. I'm a solid 8 outta 10 (IMO)

2. Funny

3. Confident

4. Intelligent

I got rid of my shyness. I approach HBs without thinking twice. But girls aren't being well receptive.

At least I been with a few girls sexually in my life, so I'm not a virgin. But I'm officially out of the dating game. I will only care about myself. I'll bang a few drunk girls whenever I'm horny, but I'm never trying to start a relationship again.
just stay clear of americanized chicks. they are worthless.
 

FreeStyleZ

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sounds like me.. i fit everything on that list too, but u can throw in tall (6'4), and the girls still arent receptive of me.
 

Create Reality

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00Kevin: What the hell is 'Americanized' suppose to mean?

Eighth: Dating is a numbers game. Of all the 7 billion people on this rock, half are women. Out of those half, about 20% are gonna be the age you want, right? That gives us 700 million.

What im ****ing saying is get over it. Maybe the reason girls aren't receptive is because you keep frequenting the same places?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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m4a1

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Originally posted by Create Reality
00Kevin: What the hell is 'Americanized' suppose to mean?
Go to this site: http://nomarriage.com
The owner of that site has bitter opinions, but he's telling the truth about American/Americanized women.
 

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Originally posted by Eighth Passenger
I come to the conclusion that girls are not interested in me.

1. I'm a solid 8 outta 10 (IMO)

2. Funny

3. Confident

4. Intelligent

I got rid of my shyness. I approach HBs without thinking twice. But girls aren't being well receptive.

Maybe you're not as cool as you think. It's good to think you are but alot of people overrate themselves. Maybe you're one of them.
 

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Re: Re: After months of improving myself...

Originally posted by Fatality
Maybe you're not as cool as you think. It's good to think you are but alot of people overrate themselves. Maybe you're one of them.
Everybody has their faults...including myself...but I should get attention from HB7's and up. I'm always getting attention from some ugly b1tch that knows no one else would touch her with a 10 foot pole. I don't expect supermodels to date me...
 

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hey man... dont get so stressed out.. just let things flow for awhile... you cant win all of them. take thnigs easy, chill with your mates, dont worry about getting any girls or relationships, if it happens it happens. :D live for the moment.
It is never worth it to jump through hoops and to put a lot of effort into getting or keeping ***** if all you want is sex. ***** is NEVER worth a lot of effort. Just do what you want to do with your time. If ***** wants to come along, great. If not, just tell her to get lost. If you can get ***** with very little effort, then great. But if not, pass on her and wait for another woman to come along. Sex is just a commodity. Spend your time and energy on making money, starting a business, or travel.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Maybe your just trying too hard. I took the summer off in regards to girls, read lots of articles on this site and now I'm having better luck than I was. I worked out and just focused on self improvement and activities that I enjoyed that didn't necessarily involve girls.

But really just take some time off and read every bit of info you can on this site. I used to approach with very little success before but now even if I don't get a number I feel good just for approaching. Do a search on pook, bondjamesbond, grey fox and inspirationman just to name a few. That's my 2 cents.
 

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Yeah, i posted in frustration. I'm gonna concentrate one 'me' and try again when i feel up to it. if a HB just so happens enter my life anytime, then cool.
 

jakeyboy

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thats the way to go mate. well said.
 

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Could it be you're going after the gals who aren't interested in you, and ignoring those who are? Or you're not following the flow the right way when a gal is interested?

Read Disciple's posts in the "Tips" section, and you may find the problem in there.
 
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