"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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After months of improving myself...

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I come to the conclusion that girls are not interested in me.

1. I'm a solid 8 outta 10 (IMO)

2. Funny

3. Confident

4. Intelligent

I got rid of my shyness. I approach HBs without thinking twice. But girls aren't being well receptive.

At least I been with a few girls sexually in my life, so I'm not a virgin. But I'm officially out of the dating game. I will only care about myself. I'll bang a few drunk girls whenever I'm horny, but I'm never trying to start a relationship again.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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woe is me.
 
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Originally posted by Eighth Passenger
I come to the conclusion that girls are not interested in me.

1. I'm a solid 8 outta 10 (IMO)

2. Funny

3. Confident

4. Intelligent

I got rid of my shyness. I approach HBs without thinking twice. But girls aren't being well receptive.

At least I been with a few girls sexually in my life, so I'm not a virgin. But I'm officially out of the dating game. I will only care about myself. I'll bang a few drunk girls whenever I'm horny, but I'm never trying to start a relationship again.
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just stay clear of americanized chicks. they are worthless.
 
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FreeStyleZ

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sounds like me.. i fit everything on that list too, but u can throw in tall (6'4), and the girls still arent receptive of me.
 
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00Kevin: What the hell is 'Americanized' suppose to mean?

Eighth: Dating is a numbers game. Of all the 7 billion people on this rock, half are women. Out of those half, about 20% are gonna be the age you want, right? That gives us 700 million.

What im ****ing saying is get over it. Maybe the reason girls aren't receptive is because you keep frequenting the same places?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Create Reality
00Kevin: What the hell is 'Americanized' suppose to mean?
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Go to this site: http://nomarriage.com
The owner of that site has bitter opinions, but he's telling the truth about American/Americanized women.
 
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Originally posted by Eighth Passenger
I come to the conclusion that girls are not interested in me.

1. I'm a solid 8 outta 10 (IMO)

2. Funny

3. Confident

4. Intelligent

I got rid of my shyness. I approach HBs without thinking twice. But girls aren't being well receptive.
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Maybe you're not as cool as you think. It's good to think you are but alot of people overrate themselves. Maybe you're one of them.
 
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Re: Re: After months of improving myself...

Originally posted by Fatality
Maybe you're not as cool as you think. It's good to think you are but alot of people overrate themselves. Maybe you're one of them.
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Everybody has their faults...including myself...but I should get attention from HB7's and up. I'm always getting attention from some ugly b1tch that knows no one else would touch her with a 10 foot pole. I don't expect supermodels to date me...
 
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hey man... dont get so stressed out.. just let things flow for awhile... you cant win all of them. take thnigs easy, chill with your mates, dont worry about getting any girls or relationships, if it happens it happens. :D live for the moment.
It is never worth it to jump through hoops and to put a lot of effort into getting or keeping ***** if all you want is sex. ***** is NEVER worth a lot of effort. Just do what you want to do with your time. If ***** wants to come along, great. If not, just tell her to get lost. If you can get ***** with very little effort, then great. But if not, pass on her and wait for another woman to come along. Sex is just a commodity. Spend your time and energy on making money, starting a business, or travel.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Maybe your just trying too hard. I took the summer off in regards to girls, read lots of articles on this site and now I'm having better luck than I was. I worked out and just focused on self improvement and activities that I enjoyed that didn't necessarily involve girls.

But really just take some time off and read every bit of info you can on this site. I used to approach with very little success before but now even if I don't get a number I feel good just for approaching. Do a search on pook, bondjamesbond, grey fox and inspirationman just to name a few. That's my 2 cents.
 
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Yeah, i posted in frustration. I'm gonna concentrate one 'me' and try again when i feel up to it. if a HB just so happens enter my life anytime, then cool.
 
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thats the way to go mate. well said.
 
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Could it be you're going after the gals who aren't interested in you, and ignoring those who are? Or you're not following the flow the right way when a gal is interested?

Read Disciple's posts in the "Tips" section, and you may find the problem in there.
 
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