generalmarcuz
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After a week without sending email or sms what is the best email or sms opener? Do you just say hi, how are you? Its been a long time, how are you? Or are there better openers out there?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
After a week without sending email or sms what is the best email opener?
- Thread starter generalmarcuz
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
cmorrow001
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I like the "whats new stranger" but i guess it depends on the situation.
TRY THESE........let me know how quickly she responds. These are just quick headline attention grabbers, your agenda is to play off of her response.
1) OK MISS TOO BUSY TO WRITE BACK
2) SO MANY MEN SO LITTLE TIME
3) ITS ABOUT QUALITY NOT QUANTITY
4) THE SILENT TREATMENT ALREADY-that dont happen til date 2 or 3
5) PLAYING HARD TO GET HUH-alright missy
6) HEY HAVING TROUBLE PAYING YOUR BILLS-can't write me back huh
7) DID YOU BREAK YOUR FINGERS-are you ok, are you still alive
8) DITCH THAT GUY-i am much more interesting
9) MEET ME DON'T DELETE ME
10) HEY DID U FORGET ME ALREADY
1) OK MISS TOO BUSY TO WRITE BACK
2) SO MANY MEN SO LITTLE TIME
3) ITS ABOUT QUALITY NOT QUANTITY
4) THE SILENT TREATMENT ALREADY-that dont happen til date 2 or 3
5) PLAYING HARD TO GET HUH-alright missy
6) HEY HAVING TROUBLE PAYING YOUR BILLS-can't write me back huh
7) DID YOU BREAK YOUR FINGERS-are you ok, are you still alive
8) DITCH THAT GUY-i am much more interesting
9) MEET ME DON'T DELETE ME
10) HEY DID U FORGET ME ALREADY
generalmarcuz
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Yeah I'll try them all...
I like most of your suggestions... thanks... I'll try them all and give you a report...
I like most of your suggestions... thanks... I'll try them all and give you a report...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
How about your reach down to your pants and find your balls and grab onto them because you need to remind yourself that if you want something in this life "you got to have balls and go after it". Forget about the stupid email or sms and give the girl a call already. While you are working slowly and methadocially, some other dude is going to get her or already got her.generalmarcuz said:
Francisco d'Anconia
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We're assuming that he has her number. If he has it her number, it looks even more AFC that he doesn't use it.DJDamage said:
Even if he doesn't have her number, the real question is "why doesn't he have her number"?Francisco d'Anconia said:
See what emails, sms, instant messages done, has created a sterile environment where a man is able to hide and doesn't have to face the chick or talk to her because his precious little ego will take a hit if he gets rejected. Now we have men sitting by the computer screens/cell phones waiting weeks and months hoping to raise girls interest level by being chummy in a submissive non threatning matter. Then by the time they get the courage to ask/or call her on the phone for a date they get p1ssed that the girl is no longer interested in them, and they end up calling her a slvt because some other guy got this chick into bed less then a week after they met lol.