generalmarcuz
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After a week without sending email or sms what is the best email or sms opener? Do you just say hi, how are you? Its been a long time, how are you? Or are there better openers out there?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
After a week without sending email or sms what is the best email opener?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
cmorrow001
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I like the "whats new stranger" but i guess it depends on the situation.
TRY THESE........let me know how quickly she responds. These are just quick headline attention grabbers, your agenda is to play off of her response.
1) OK MISS TOO BUSY TO WRITE BACK
2) SO MANY MEN SO LITTLE TIME
3) ITS ABOUT QUALITY NOT QUANTITY
4) THE SILENT TREATMENT ALREADY-that dont happen til date 2 or 3
5) PLAYING HARD TO GET HUH-alright missy
6) HEY HAVING TROUBLE PAYING YOUR BILLS-can't write me back huh
7) DID YOU BREAK YOUR FINGERS-are you ok, are you still alive
8) DITCH THAT GUY-i am much more interesting
9) MEET ME DON'T DELETE ME
10) HEY DID U FORGET ME ALREADY
1) OK MISS TOO BUSY TO WRITE BACK
2) SO MANY MEN SO LITTLE TIME
3) ITS ABOUT QUALITY NOT QUANTITY
4) THE SILENT TREATMENT ALREADY-that dont happen til date 2 or 3
5) PLAYING HARD TO GET HUH-alright missy
6) HEY HAVING TROUBLE PAYING YOUR BILLS-can't write me back huh
7) DID YOU BREAK YOUR FINGERS-are you ok, are you still alive
8) DITCH THAT GUY-i am much more interesting
9) MEET ME DON'T DELETE ME
10) HEY DID U FORGET ME ALREADY
generalmarcuz
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Yeah I'll try them all...
I like most of your suggestions... thanks... I'll try them all and give you a report...
I like most of your suggestions... thanks... I'll try them all and give you a report...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How about your reach down to your pants and find your balls and grab onto them because you need to remind yourself that if you want something in this life "you got to have balls and go after it". Forget about the stupid email or sms and give the girl a call already. While you are working slowly and methadocially, some other dude is going to get her or already got her.generalmarcuz said:
Francisco d'Anconia
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We're assuming that he has her number. If he has it her number, it looks even more AFC that he doesn't use it.DJDamage said:
Even if he doesn't have her number, the real question is "why doesn't he have her number"?Francisco d'Anconia said:
See what emails, sms, instant messages done, has created a sterile environment where a man is able to hide and doesn't have to face the chick or talk to her because his precious little ego will take a hit if he gets rejected. Now we have men sitting by the computer screens/cell phones waiting weeks and months hoping to raise girls interest level by being chummy in a submissive non threatning matter. Then by the time they get the courage to ask/or call her on the phone for a date they get p1ssed that the girl is no longer interested in them, and they end up calling her a slvt because some other guy got this chick into bed less then a week after they met lol.