generalmarcuz
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After a week without sending email or sms what is the best email or sms opener? Do you just say hi, how are you? Its been a long time, how are you? Or are there better openers out there?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
After a week without sending email or sms what is the best email opener?
- Thread starter generalmarcuz
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
cmorrow001
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I like the "whats new stranger" but i guess it depends on the situation.
TRY THESE........let me know how quickly she responds. These are just quick headline attention grabbers, your agenda is to play off of her response.
1) OK MISS TOO BUSY TO WRITE BACK
2) SO MANY MEN SO LITTLE TIME
3) ITS ABOUT QUALITY NOT QUANTITY
4) THE SILENT TREATMENT ALREADY-that dont happen til date 2 or 3
5) PLAYING HARD TO GET HUH-alright missy
6) HEY HAVING TROUBLE PAYING YOUR BILLS-can't write me back huh
7) DID YOU BREAK YOUR FINGERS-are you ok, are you still alive
8) DITCH THAT GUY-i am much more interesting
9) MEET ME DON'T DELETE ME
10) HEY DID U FORGET ME ALREADY
1) OK MISS TOO BUSY TO WRITE BACK
2) SO MANY MEN SO LITTLE TIME
3) ITS ABOUT QUALITY NOT QUANTITY
4) THE SILENT TREATMENT ALREADY-that dont happen til date 2 or 3
5) PLAYING HARD TO GET HUH-alright missy
6) HEY HAVING TROUBLE PAYING YOUR BILLS-can't write me back huh
7) DID YOU BREAK YOUR FINGERS-are you ok, are you still alive
8) DITCH THAT GUY-i am much more interesting
9) MEET ME DON'T DELETE ME
10) HEY DID U FORGET ME ALREADY
generalmarcuz
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Yeah I'll try them all...
I like most of your suggestions... thanks... I'll try them all and give you a report...
I like most of your suggestions... thanks... I'll try them all and give you a report...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How about your reach down to your pants and find your balls and grab onto them because you need to remind yourself that if you want something in this life "you got to have balls and go after it". Forget about the stupid email or sms and give the girl a call already. While you are working slowly and methadocially, some other dude is going to get her or already got her.generalmarcuz said:
Francisco d'Anconia
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We're assuming that he has her number. If he has it her number, it looks even more AFC that he doesn't use it.DJDamage said:
Even if he doesn't have her number, the real question is "why doesn't he have her number"?Francisco d'Anconia said:
See what emails, sms, instant messages done, has created a sterile environment where a man is able to hide and doesn't have to face the chick or talk to her because his precious little ego will take a hit if he gets rejected. Now we have men sitting by the computer screens/cell phones waiting weeks and months hoping to raise girls interest level by being chummy in a submissive non threatning matter. Then by the time they get the courage to ask/or call her on the phone for a date they get p1ssed that the girl is no longer interested in them, and they end up calling her a slvt because some other guy got this chick into bed less then a week after they met lol.