generalmarcuz
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After a week without sending email or sms what is the best email or sms opener? Do you just say hi, how are you? Its been a long time, how are you? Or are there better openers out there?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
After a week without sending email or sms what is the best email opener?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
cmorrow001
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I like the "whats new stranger" but i guess it depends on the situation.
TRY THESE........let me know how quickly she responds. These are just quick headline attention grabbers, your agenda is to play off of her response.
1) OK MISS TOO BUSY TO WRITE BACK
2) SO MANY MEN SO LITTLE TIME
3) ITS ABOUT QUALITY NOT QUANTITY
4) THE SILENT TREATMENT ALREADY-that dont happen til date 2 or 3
5) PLAYING HARD TO GET HUH-alright missy
6) HEY HAVING TROUBLE PAYING YOUR BILLS-can't write me back huh
7) DID YOU BREAK YOUR FINGERS-are you ok, are you still alive
8) DITCH THAT GUY-i am much more interesting
9) MEET ME DON'T DELETE ME
10) HEY DID U FORGET ME ALREADY
1) OK MISS TOO BUSY TO WRITE BACK
2) SO MANY MEN SO LITTLE TIME
3) ITS ABOUT QUALITY NOT QUANTITY
4) THE SILENT TREATMENT ALREADY-that dont happen til date 2 or 3
5) PLAYING HARD TO GET HUH-alright missy
6) HEY HAVING TROUBLE PAYING YOUR BILLS-can't write me back huh
7) DID YOU BREAK YOUR FINGERS-are you ok, are you still alive
8) DITCH THAT GUY-i am much more interesting
9) MEET ME DON'T DELETE ME
10) HEY DID U FORGET ME ALREADY
generalmarcuz
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Yeah I'll try them all...
I like most of your suggestions... thanks... I'll try them all and give you a report...
I like most of your suggestions... thanks... I'll try them all and give you a report...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How about your reach down to your pants and find your balls and grab onto them because you need to remind yourself that if you want something in this life "you got to have balls and go after it". Forget about the stupid email or sms and give the girl a call already. While you are working slowly and methadocially, some other dude is going to get her or already got her.generalmarcuz said:
Francisco d'Anconia
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We're assuming that he has her number. If he has it her number, it looks even more AFC that he doesn't use it.DJDamage said:
Even if he doesn't have her number, the real question is "why doesn't he have her number"?Francisco d'Anconia said:
See what emails, sms, instant messages done, has created a sterile environment where a man is able to hide and doesn't have to face the chick or talk to her because his precious little ego will take a hit if he gets rejected. Now we have men sitting by the computer screens/cell phones waiting weeks and months hoping to raise girls interest level by being chummy in a submissive non threatning matter. Then by the time they get the courage to ask/or call her on the phone for a date they get p1ssed that the girl is no longer interested in them, and they end up calling her a slvt because some other guy got this chick into bed less then a week after they met lol.