“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
After a date, what if
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
If its a 1st date, then u should wait about an hour or so. But if its a girl u have gone out to many dates with etc, then a reply a few minutes later is ok. But if you drop her off at home at like 2 in the morning, then u dont wanna wait too long because she will probably go to sleep soon after u drop her off, so if thats the case, then sms her back after a few minutes of her sms'ing you (phsycologically if the last thing that she reads/thinkis about is u, she will subcontiously think about you in her sleep, and this will create additional attraction for her towards you)
If you dont believe in it, then u dont have to do it, and you can continue doing things in the ways that u think are "right" or "better", but for those who are willing to try it out and see that it DOES "do sh!t" , goodluck.Originally posted by Hot Ice
Well, of course!
Hehehe. DJ's are always concentrating these little bull details that don't do ****...
Laterz...
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Who is that aimed at? Any what is ur reason for saying that? have u tried it before? have u asked a woman on HER opinion on this matter? Has it worked or NOT worked for you? Because i HAVE tried this in the past, and i HAVE asked a woman on her point of view on the subject, and it HAS worked for me in the past (the girls told me this).... oh ya.. umm... what was that u were saying about being a fool?
P.S.: Every girl that i have wanted/tried to bed i have been successfull with.
Laterz...
(i added the word "tried" into that sentence so that people wouldnt missunderstand what i mean)
You missed my point.... ok... try this... after a date with a girl, u get home and u sms her (putting urself in her position) now if u go to bed without a reply u will have doughts and u wont know what to think.... but if u sms her and u get a reply, u will go to sleep alot more "calmy" and peacfull at mind... and when u wake up u will not wake up with doughts, u will wake up thinkking positivelly about her etc.
It might be a little hard to explain, but just do it and see
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Umm.... and why would u say that? I am not talking about celebs etc that i see on tv and say "omg i'd F*ck her" etc... i am talking about women that i have met in real life!
And btw... i have a gf at the moment, and i dont plan on cheating on her, so therfore i havnt TRIED to bed any other women. *G*
MY point is that you guys worry about the details far too much. Replying to somebody's text message, be it in an hour or a minute is not going to "sway" her attraction for you. In fact, that is the entire problem for the most part....is that we are walking on eggshells, careful not to "lower interest level".
You reply when you want to reply and do the normal, courteous thing. If a person is INTENTIONALLY not texting her back to appear like he doesn't care, then he is missing the big picture and will be too caught up in details to ever be able to take things to the next level.
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reply exactly 17.00037883746 second later. You will probably need an atomic clock to time it just right, but it could mean the difference between a next date, and complete failure.
instead of this bible, we need a don juan cook book recipe guide to getting women.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
lol... SOLID... put it this way, the chances of something going "wrong" are greater than tehy are if u DONT text her back.... so if i were u, yes, i WOULD write back to her on that night, even if its right after she texts you.
But on the other hand, if she DOESNT text u 1st, THEN u dont text her. I actually called up 3 of my girl friends and they all said that if within 24 hours the guy doesnt text them reguardless if she texts him 1st, then they will think that the guy is not interested, so overall what i think that u should do is:
1) If she texts you 1st, then text her back right afterwards.
2) If she desnt text you, then the following day u can text her saying something along the lines of " Hey, i really enjoyed last night" etc.
Laterz...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.