"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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After a date, what if

if she txts u after a date you?

  • txt her straight back

    Votes: 4 33.3%

  • leave it a few hours

    Votes: 7 58.3%

  • few days

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • no

    Votes: 1 8.3%
  • Total voters
    12
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DeathDealer

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It depends. If the date turned out well, text her right away back but only once. If the date was so-so, doing it a few hours later is a good idea. If the date was crappy, no reply.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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The point of all this "wait to call or txt message" stuff is just to show you got a life going for you and you're not desperate. For some reason people on this board take it to the extreme and think you got to keep playing "busy" and "hard to get" ALL THE TIME...OVER EVERY STUPID INSIGNIFICANT THING. They analyze every damn communication with a girl to death, and then beat the living crap out of it while it is dead.

ffs, you just had a date with her and she messages, you, she KNOWS you're not busy because you just got off a date with her. It's not likely you're already well into some work or something.

The main point of waiting to call or message a girl (not showing desperation) is to:

1) Get that initial date.
2) Not mess it up by calling her every day after the date.

She's not going to be more attracted to you for waiting 1 hour to txt her back after the date. If anything it may have the opposite affect by showing you don't care or aren't interested. Notice, she is NOT thinking "Oh this guy must be busy 1 hour after the date because he didn't txt me back. I'm getting so horny for him now since he didn't reply for an hour. In fact, I think I'll sleep with him tomorrow." Do you honestly think something that ridiculous is going on in her head. Just txt her back ffs!
 
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