"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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After a 3 year relationship, I'm almost back to square one...

mikeraw

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TL;DR version:

Can anyone give me a good list of pick-up and game material that I can quickly go through?

So I just got out of a LTR with a hot chick... I always played on the side, but they were nowhere near as good-looking as my GF, so I didn't need much game to hook 'em.

Now that I'm single again, I want to stay way from fatties and uglies. I'm a regular at a couple of bars and don't really like to sh*t where I eat, so I use waitresses as practice, but what I really need to find again is raw game.

I know that reading material and watching videos is no substitute for actually going out and practicing it, but can anyone list their top 5 references for picking up chicks?

And I really would like to stay away from DeAngelo and that whiner Tyler Durden...

Thanks in advance!

Mike
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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if you are social person , they mystery will be a very helpful for you
 

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Aww dude why bog yourself down in bull shyt theory? Just get out there and have fun! You already know exactly what you need to do.
 

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Actually, I took some good advice away from Tyler when he was on the big Eckhart Tolle kick talking about being present and in the moment. Couple that with a bit of body language study and the world changes, no joke. You really start to notice things you did not before, it helps you get out of your head and look at what is in front of you...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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what if I'm not feeling too social?
wont work , because Mystery method depend on penetrating the social circle then become the highest male value in the social circle (gaining social proof )
,then start seduction game from that point .
I know it is the best way because many real seducers use it
 

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It's good that you have motivation but PUA material is just a psychological help.
Also raises your expectations so it's not good.

Start small. Relax. It'll happen.
 

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Dear Mike,
No you aren't back to square one at all....You are older and wiser,and you didn't get hooked!...Look spin Plates,it's the only way...in between learn to Dance it really is the way to go.
 
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