"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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After a 3 year relationship, I'm almost back to square one...

mikeraw

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TL;DR version:

Can anyone give me a good list of pick-up and game material that I can quickly go through?

So I just got out of a LTR with a hot chick... I always played on the side, but they were nowhere near as good-looking as my GF, so I didn't need much game to hook 'em.

Now that I'm single again, I want to stay way from fatties and uglies. I'm a regular at a couple of bars and don't really like to sh*t where I eat, so I use waitresses as practice, but what I really need to find again is raw game.

I know that reading material and watching videos is no substitute for actually going out and practicing it, but can anyone list their top 5 references for picking up chicks?

And I really would like to stay away from DeAngelo and that whiner Tyler Durden...

Thanks in advance!

Mike
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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if you are social person , they mystery will be a very helpful for you
 

Slickster

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Aww dude why bog yourself down in bull shyt theory? Just get out there and have fun! You already know exactly what you need to do.
 

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Actually, I took some good advice away from Tyler when he was on the big Eckhart Tolle kick talking about being present and in the moment. Couple that with a bit of body language study and the world changes, no joke. You really start to notice things you did not before, it helps you get out of your head and look at what is in front of you...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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what if I'm not feeling too social?
wont work , because Mystery method depend on penetrating the social circle then become the highest male value in the social circle (gaining social proof )
,then start seduction game from that point .
I know it is the best way because many real seducers use it
 

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It's good that you have motivation but PUA material is just a psychological help.
Also raises your expectations so it's not good.

Start small. Relax. It'll happen.
 

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Dear Mike,
No you aren't back to square one at all....You are older and wiser,and you didn't get hooked!...Look spin Plates,it's the only way...in between learn to Dance it really is the way to go.
 
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