"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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After a 3 year relationship, I'm almost back to square one...

mikeraw

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TL;DR version:

Can anyone give me a good list of pick-up and game material that I can quickly go through?

So I just got out of a LTR with a hot chick... I always played on the side, but they were nowhere near as good-looking as my GF, so I didn't need much game to hook 'em.

Now that I'm single again, I want to stay way from fatties and uglies. I'm a regular at a couple of bars and don't really like to sh*t where I eat, so I use waitresses as practice, but what I really need to find again is raw game.

I know that reading material and watching videos is no substitute for actually going out and practicing it, but can anyone list their top 5 references for picking up chicks?

And I really would like to stay away from DeAngelo and that whiner Tyler Durden...

Thanks in advance!

Mike
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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if you are social person , they mystery will be a very helpful for you
 

Slickster

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Aww dude why bog yourself down in bull shyt theory? Just get out there and have fun! You already know exactly what you need to do.
 

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Actually, I took some good advice away from Tyler when he was on the big Eckhart Tolle kick talking about being present and in the moment. Couple that with a bit of body language study and the world changes, no joke. You really start to notice things you did not before, it helps you get out of your head and look at what is in front of you...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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evan12

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what if I'm not feeling too social?
wont work , because Mystery method depend on penetrating the social circle then become the highest male value in the social circle (gaining social proof )
,then start seduction game from that point .
I know it is the best way because many real seducers use it
 

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It's good that you have motivation but PUA material is just a psychological help.
Also raises your expectations so it's not good.

Start small. Relax. It'll happen.
 

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Dear Mike,
No you aren't back to square one at all....You are older and wiser,and you didn't get hooked!...Look spin Plates,it's the only way...in between learn to Dance it really is the way to go.
 
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