"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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African shop girl!

johncrawford

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There's a girl that I met at the coffee shop where I work a while ago.
She works at a African shop, just up the street from where I am.
Anyhow she comes in every now and then.After a few visits I got her name etc.
Last week she came in waving her hands all over the place at me.I had not seen her for a couple of weeks.She wanted to use the Ladies.You need to buy something to use the toilets,but I like her so I let her!

Funny thing is she came back a few minutes later to buy a apple shortcake!

I walked past her shop today before work, and made eye contact.
She looked bored- no customers!
So during my lunchbreak I took her some apple shortcake!!

she told me she loved me(yeah right!)
ALSO SHE SAID I haven't got you anything(just being polite?)
I said it doesn't matter just come down to the coffee shop sometime!

That's all I said ,had to get back to work.

Shall I go and see her soon ??:cool:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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johncrawford said:
There's a girl that I met at the coffee shop where I work a while ago.
She works at a African shop, just up the street from where I am.
Anyhow she comes in every now and then.After a few visits I got her name etc.
Last week she came in waving her hands all over the place at me.I had not seen her for a couple of weeks.She wanted to use the Ladies.You need to buy something to use the toilets,but I like her so I let her!

Funny thing is she came back a few minutes later to buy a apple shortcake!

I walked past her shop today before work, and made eye contact.
She looked bored- no customers!
So during my lunchbreak I took her some apple shortcake!!

she told me she loved me(yeah right!)
ALSO SHE SAID I haven't got you anything(just being polite?)
I said it doesn't matter just come down to the coffee shop sometime!

That's all I said ,had to get back to work.

Shall I go and see her soon ??:cool:
bro, wat are you waiting for,lol make the move already. this chick obviously likes you. ask her out, get her number, and nail her.

remember, hesitation is masturbation. dont be masturbation.
 

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Raikojo17 said:
bro, wat are you waiting for,lol make the move already. this chick obviously likes you. ask her out, get her number, and nail her.

remember, hesitation is masturbation. dont be masturbation.
Well she came in the shop today and bought some apple shortcake!

I made a few comments about how she was looking well and aked her where she got her tan etc.I said don't be a stranger,she said I won't!

Latter I found out from a close source she was married!!!

I still went in the shop and saw her.I told her I was heading to buy some cigs.She told me she smokes as well!
Said I go to the gym to keep in shape and that you don't need to ,because I can tell you don't put weight on!

She aked be where I was from,I asked her the same.Said she was a local girl.Told me that the hospital she was born in was closed now.I said was that because you were born there! she just laughted.

This girl is so hot! it pissed me off to know that she is taken! but is she?

where shall I go from here?
 

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Chantelle you gave me inspiration when I thought all was lost and gone.

Just to see you smile and to look into your eyes.Makes my day so bright inside.

Even thou I know you are not alone.It does not alter this rollercoaster ride!

You are to me,a breath of fresh air.

Chantelle you are my apple shortcake girl(smile)

I will give her this note in the morning!
 

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johncrawford said:
Chantelle you gave me inspiration when I thought all was lost and gone.

Just to see you smile and to look into your eyes.Makes my day so bright inside.

Even thou I know you are not alone.It does not alter this rollercoaster ride!

You are to me,a breath of fresh air.

Chantelle you are my apple shortcake girl(smile)

I will give her this note in the morning!
you wrote her a poem?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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been there done that. i think thats a bad idea. you bairly know her and your saying how much she means to you already? she will freak out.

believe me i did this, and it backfired.


I would have just asked her out. Its a lot more simple and if you get blown off, no biggy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bottom line is if she's a modern Americanized woman, she's a hor! Unless she's a virgin, in which case she's may not be a hor.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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sexxyback said:
bottom line is if she's a modern Americanized woman, she's a hor! Unless she's a virgin, in which case she's may not be a hor.
She is english and most likely a **** tease.She did give me a gift today thou!
 

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if she's english she's probably a hor, and you're just the next pimp in line!
 

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She's married, you creep! Hahaha

She's proably an attention hor.

A POEM?? A POEM??!!! ARE YOU MAD!??!?!?
Musician or not you're mad!!
 

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She's married, you creep! Hahaha

She's proably an attention hor.

A POEM?? A POEM??!!! ARE YOU MAD!??!?!?
Musician or not you're mad!!
I saw her today.She was waiting in line to buy a sandwhich for lunch.
I was heading to the bank to deposit works takings for the week.
I think she saw me first! I just looked at her.Was not going to say anything.
She then waved and smiled!

So I just said 'what are you doing buying lunch here?' pause,she smiled.
Then I said 'traitor' she Laughted,then I went to the bank.:)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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