"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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African shop girl!

johncrawford

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There's a girl that I met at the coffee shop where I work a while ago.
She works at a African shop, just up the street from where I am.
Anyhow she comes in every now and then.After a few visits I got her name etc.
Last week she came in waving her hands all over the place at me.I had not seen her for a couple of weeks.She wanted to use the Ladies.You need to buy something to use the toilets,but I like her so I let her!

Funny thing is she came back a few minutes later to buy a apple shortcake!

I walked past her shop today before work, and made eye contact.
She looked bored- no customers!
So during my lunchbreak I took her some apple shortcake!!

she told me she loved me(yeah right!)
ALSO SHE SAID I haven't got you anything(just being polite?)
I said it doesn't matter just come down to the coffee shop sometime!

That's all I said ,had to get back to work.

Shall I go and see her soon ??:cool:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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johncrawford said:
There's a girl that I met at the coffee shop where I work a while ago.
She works at a African shop, just up the street from where I am.
Anyhow she comes in every now and then.After a few visits I got her name etc.
Last week she came in waving her hands all over the place at me.I had not seen her for a couple of weeks.She wanted to use the Ladies.You need to buy something to use the toilets,but I like her so I let her!

Funny thing is she came back a few minutes later to buy a apple shortcake!

I walked past her shop today before work, and made eye contact.
She looked bored- no customers!
So during my lunchbreak I took her some apple shortcake!!

she told me she loved me(yeah right!)
ALSO SHE SAID I haven't got you anything(just being polite?)
I said it doesn't matter just come down to the coffee shop sometime!

That's all I said ,had to get back to work.

Shall I go and see her soon ??:cool:
bro, wat are you waiting for,lol make the move already. this chick obviously likes you. ask her out, get her number, and nail her.

remember, hesitation is masturbation. dont be masturbation.
 

johncrawford

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Raikojo17 said:
bro, wat are you waiting for,lol make the move already. this chick obviously likes you. ask her out, get her number, and nail her.

remember, hesitation is masturbation. dont be masturbation.
Well she came in the shop today and bought some apple shortcake!

I made a few comments about how she was looking well and aked her where she got her tan etc.I said don't be a stranger,she said I won't!

Latter I found out from a close source she was married!!!

I still went in the shop and saw her.I told her I was heading to buy some cigs.She told me she smokes as well!
Said I go to the gym to keep in shape and that you don't need to ,because I can tell you don't put weight on!

She aked be where I was from,I asked her the same.Said she was a local girl.Told me that the hospital she was born in was closed now.I said was that because you were born there! she just laughted.

This girl is so hot! it pissed me off to know that she is taken! but is she?

where shall I go from here?
 

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Chantelle you gave me inspiration when I thought all was lost and gone.

Just to see you smile and to look into your eyes.Makes my day so bright inside.

Even thou I know you are not alone.It does not alter this rollercoaster ride!

You are to me,a breath of fresh air.

Chantelle you are my apple shortcake girl(smile)

I will give her this note in the morning!
 

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johncrawford said:
Chantelle you gave me inspiration when I thought all was lost and gone.

Just to see you smile and to look into your eyes.Makes my day so bright inside.

Even thou I know you are not alone.It does not alter this rollercoaster ride!

You are to me,a breath of fresh air.

Chantelle you are my apple shortcake girl(smile)

I will give her this note in the morning!
you wrote her a poem?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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been there done that. i think thats a bad idea. you bairly know her and your saying how much she means to you already? she will freak out.

believe me i did this, and it backfired.


I would have just asked her out. Its a lot more simple and if you get blown off, no biggy.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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bottom line is if she's a modern Americanized woman, she's a hor! Unless she's a virgin, in which case she's may not be a hor.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sexxyback said:
bottom line is if she's a modern Americanized woman, she's a hor! Unless she's a virgin, in which case she's may not be a hor.
She is english and most likely a **** tease.She did give me a gift today thou!
 

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if she's english she's probably a hor, and you're just the next pimp in line!
 

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She's married, you creep! Hahaha

She's proably an attention hor.

A POEM?? A POEM??!!! ARE YOU MAD!??!?!?
Musician or not you're mad!!
 

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She's married, you creep! Hahaha

She's proably an attention hor.

A POEM?? A POEM??!!! ARE YOU MAD!??!?!?
Musician or not you're mad!!
I saw her today.She was waiting in line to buy a sandwhich for lunch.
I was heading to the bank to deposit works takings for the week.
I think she saw me first! I just looked at her.Was not going to say anything.
She then waved and smiled!

So I just said 'what are you doing buying lunch here?' pause,she smiled.
Then I said 'traitor' she Laughted,then I went to the bank.:)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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