"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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African shop girl!

johncrawford

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There's a girl that I met at the coffee shop where I work a while ago.
She works at a African shop, just up the street from where I am.
Anyhow she comes in every now and then.After a few visits I got her name etc.
Last week she came in waving her hands all over the place at me.I had not seen her for a couple of weeks.She wanted to use the Ladies.You need to buy something to use the toilets,but I like her so I let her!

Funny thing is she came back a few minutes later to buy a apple shortcake!

I walked past her shop today before work, and made eye contact.
She looked bored- no customers!
So during my lunchbreak I took her some apple shortcake!!

she told me she loved me(yeah right!)
ALSO SHE SAID I haven't got you anything(just being polite?)
I said it doesn't matter just come down to the coffee shop sometime!

That's all I said ,had to get back to work.

Shall I go and see her soon ??:cool:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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johncrawford said:
There's a girl that I met at the coffee shop where I work a while ago.
She works at a African shop, just up the street from where I am.
Anyhow she comes in every now and then.After a few visits I got her name etc.
Last week she came in waving her hands all over the place at me.I had not seen her for a couple of weeks.She wanted to use the Ladies.You need to buy something to use the toilets,but I like her so I let her!

Funny thing is she came back a few minutes later to buy a apple shortcake!

I walked past her shop today before work, and made eye contact.
She looked bored- no customers!
So during my lunchbreak I took her some apple shortcake!!

she told me she loved me(yeah right!)
ALSO SHE SAID I haven't got you anything(just being polite?)
I said it doesn't matter just come down to the coffee shop sometime!

That's all I said ,had to get back to work.

Shall I go and see her soon ??:cool:
bro, wat are you waiting for,lol make the move already. this chick obviously likes you. ask her out, get her number, and nail her.

remember, hesitation is masturbation. dont be masturbation.
 

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Raikojo17 said:
bro, wat are you waiting for,lol make the move already. this chick obviously likes you. ask her out, get her number, and nail her.

remember, hesitation is masturbation. dont be masturbation.
Well she came in the shop today and bought some apple shortcake!

I made a few comments about how she was looking well and aked her where she got her tan etc.I said don't be a stranger,she said I won't!

Latter I found out from a close source she was married!!!

I still went in the shop and saw her.I told her I was heading to buy some cigs.She told me she smokes as well!
Said I go to the gym to keep in shape and that you don't need to ,because I can tell you don't put weight on!

She aked be where I was from,I asked her the same.Said she was a local girl.Told me that the hospital she was born in was closed now.I said was that because you were born there! she just laughted.

This girl is so hot! it pissed me off to know that she is taken! but is she?

where shall I go from here?
 

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Chantelle you gave me inspiration when I thought all was lost and gone.

Just to see you smile and to look into your eyes.Makes my day so bright inside.

Even thou I know you are not alone.It does not alter this rollercoaster ride!

You are to me,a breath of fresh air.

Chantelle you are my apple shortcake girl(smile)

I will give her this note in the morning!
 

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johncrawford said:
Chantelle you gave me inspiration when I thought all was lost and gone.

Just to see you smile and to look into your eyes.Makes my day so bright inside.

Even thou I know you are not alone.It does not alter this rollercoaster ride!

You are to me,a breath of fresh air.

Chantelle you are my apple shortcake girl(smile)

I will give her this note in the morning!
you wrote her a poem?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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been there done that. i think thats a bad idea. you bairly know her and your saying how much she means to you already? she will freak out.

believe me i did this, and it backfired.


I would have just asked her out. Its a lot more simple and if you get blown off, no biggy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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bottom line is if she's a modern Americanized woman, she's a hor! Unless she's a virgin, in which case she's may not be a hor.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sexxyback said:
bottom line is if she's a modern Americanized woman, she's a hor! Unless she's a virgin, in which case she's may not be a hor.
She is english and most likely a **** tease.She did give me a gift today thou!
 

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if she's english she's probably a hor, and you're just the next pimp in line!
 

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She's married, you creep! Hahaha

She's proably an attention hor.

A POEM?? A POEM??!!! ARE YOU MAD!??!?!?
Musician or not you're mad!!
 

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She's married, you creep! Hahaha

She's proably an attention hor.

A POEM?? A POEM??!!! ARE YOU MAD!??!?!?
Musician or not you're mad!!
I saw her today.She was waiting in line to buy a sandwhich for lunch.
I was heading to the bank to deposit works takings for the week.
I think she saw me first! I just looked at her.Was not going to say anything.
She then waved and smiled!

So I just said 'what are you doing buying lunch here?' pause,she smiled.
Then I said 'traitor' she Laughted,then I went to the bank.:)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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