"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Olright people

Here i am in My home Living with AFC'S

My mates AFCS

People I meet AFCs

I mean Their are Just to many AFCs in My life

Where the hell am i ment to get all the positive Motivation From

When you meet The goods The AFCS are always their to make You fall back To AFC mode

Its Like a Trance

Its like i want to bring my Devil Out but the angel turns the fire out when AFC's are around

What Give ?





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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Your not your own person, you are your AFC-friend's person. Grow a pair.
 
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"Where the hell am i ment to get all the positive Motivation From"

You are your own best (and only) positive motivator... You can't depend on othere for motivation, if you do, it is not true motivation. It has to come within YOU.

Rise up above their "ACF" asses, and show them that you are a leader. after all isn't that what the DJs mindset is all about..
 
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Find new friends that aren't AFC's. Problem solved.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by splinterkb
Find new friends that aren't AFC's. Problem solved.
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No, problem NOT solved.

This isn't an issue with your friends. This is an issue with YOU. Yes, the whole world follows the corporo-social structure because each individual has been raised since birth to fall in line. You can't do much about that. What you CAN do is break away from the rigid doctrines and forge your own path in life.

Your friends will see your example and strive to be more like you.

Complaining about how all your friends are chumps is the sign of a beta-male. An alpha-male gets along fine with or without alpha friends, even though he may prefer the alpha friends.
 
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