"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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StoneCold

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Olright people

Here i am in My home Living with AFC'S

My mates AFCS

People I meet AFCs

I mean Their are Just to many AFCs in My life

Where the hell am i ment to get all the positive Motivation From

When you meet The goods The AFCS are always their to make You fall back To AFC mode

Its Like a Trance

Its like i want to bring my Devil Out but the angel turns the fire out when AFC's are around

What Give ?





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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Seeph

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Your not your own person, you are your AFC-friend's person. Grow a pair.
 

jdr120

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"Where the hell am i ment to get all the positive Motivation From"

You are your own best (and only) positive motivator... You can't depend on othere for motivation, if you do, it is not true motivation. It has to come within YOU.

Rise up above their "ACF" asses, and show them that you are a leader. after all isn't that what the DJs mindset is all about..
 

splinterkb

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Find new friends that aren't AFC's. Problem solved.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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squirrels

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Originally posted by splinterkb
Find new friends that aren't AFC's. Problem solved.
No, problem NOT solved.

This isn't an issue with your friends. This is an issue with YOU. Yes, the whole world follows the corporo-social structure because each individual has been raised since birth to fall in line. You can't do much about that. What you CAN do is break away from the rigid doctrines and forge your own path in life.

Your friends will see your example and strive to be more like you.

Complaining about how all your friends are chumps is the sign of a beta-male. An alpha-male gets along fine with or without alpha friends, even though he may prefer the alpha friends.
 
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