"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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StoneCold

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Olright people

Here i am in My home Living with AFC'S

My mates AFCS

People I meet AFCs

I mean Their are Just to many AFCs in My life

Where the hell am i ment to get all the positive Motivation From

When you meet The goods The AFCS are always their to make You fall back To AFC mode

Its Like a Trance

Its like i want to bring my Devil Out but the angel turns the fire out when AFC's are around

What Give ?





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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Seeph

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Your not your own person, you are your AFC-friend's person. Grow a pair.
 

jdr120

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"Where the hell am i ment to get all the positive Motivation From"

You are your own best (and only) positive motivator... You can't depend on othere for motivation, if you do, it is not true motivation. It has to come within YOU.

Rise up above their "ACF" asses, and show them that you are a leader. after all isn't that what the DJs mindset is all about..
 

splinterkb

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Find new friends that aren't AFC's. Problem solved.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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squirrels

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Originally posted by splinterkb
Find new friends that aren't AFC's. Problem solved.
No, problem NOT solved.

This isn't an issue with your friends. This is an issue with YOU. Yes, the whole world follows the corporo-social structure because each individual has been raised since birth to fall in line. You can't do much about that. What you CAN do is break away from the rigid doctrines and forge your own path in life.

Your friends will see your example and strive to be more like you.

Complaining about how all your friends are chumps is the sign of a beta-male. An alpha-male gets along fine with or without alpha friends, even though he may prefer the alpha friends.
 
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