Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
26.JaegerPilot217 said:How old is the guy that has a dead end job and has a girlfriend?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
yeah, as in we are not all connected into one social circleteddy said:26.
Also, referring to your other thread, I'm like you in that my "real" friends don't know each other so it's 1 on 1. I've been using a group of alphas for social situations and to be introduced to parties, but results haven't been good so far
that's kind of inspiring to me because I am working a minimum wage jobteddy said:26.
Also, referring to your other thread, I'm like you in that my "real" friends don't know each other so it's 1 on 1. I've been using a group of alphas for social situations and to be introduced to parties, but results haven't been good so far
and to be honest, getting a girlfriend or just getting laid with a decently attractive girl is something I want to work on doing and I don't want to put sex or dating on hold while i'm working on getting my **** togetherJaegerPilot217 said:that's kind of inspiring to me because I am working a minimum wage job
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
No offence to the OP, but the fact that his friend, who he mentions has a decent looking girlfriend and is working a dead end job and yet he is my age too, I assume he is implying that he doesn't have his **** together yet, because I don't either, for a while I was worried this would prevent me from getting laid but yet his success story shows it is possibleFortunateSon said:A proper mate would be happy for his mate having success.
You sound like one of those bitter women sounding off.