You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
26.JaegerPilot217 said:How old is the guy that has a dead end job and has a girlfriend?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
yeah, as in we are not all connected into one social circleteddy said:26.
Also, referring to your other thread, I'm like you in that my "real" friends don't know each other so it's 1 on 1. I've been using a group of alphas for social situations and to be introduced to parties, but results haven't been good so far
that's kind of inspiring to me because I am working a minimum wage jobteddy said:26.
Also, referring to your other thread, I'm like you in that my "real" friends don't know each other so it's 1 on 1. I've been using a group of alphas for social situations and to be introduced to parties, but results haven't been good so far
and to be honest, getting a girlfriend or just getting laid with a decently attractive girl is something I want to work on doing and I don't want to put sex or dating on hold while i'm working on getting my **** togetherJaegerPilot217 said:that's kind of inspiring to me because I am working a minimum wage job
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
No offence to the OP, but the fact that his friend, who he mentions has a decent looking girlfriend and is working a dead end job and yet he is my age too, I assume he is implying that he doesn't have his **** together yet, because I don't either, for a while I was worried this would prevent me from getting laid but yet his success story shows it is possibleFortunateSon said:A proper mate would be happy for his mate having success.
You sound like one of those bitter women sounding off.