Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
26.JaegerPilot217 said:How old is the guy that has a dead end job and has a girlfriend?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
yeah, as in we are not all connected into one social circleteddy said:26.
Also, referring to your other thread, I'm like you in that my "real" friends don't know each other so it's 1 on 1. I've been using a group of alphas for social situations and to be introduced to parties, but results haven't been good so far
that's kind of inspiring to me because I am working a minimum wage jobteddy said:26.
Also, referring to your other thread, I'm like you in that my "real" friends don't know each other so it's 1 on 1. I've been using a group of alphas for social situations and to be introduced to parties, but results haven't been good so far
and to be honest, getting a girlfriend or just getting laid with a decently attractive girl is something I want to work on doing and I don't want to put sex or dating on hold while i'm working on getting my **** togetherJaegerPilot217 said:that's kind of inspiring to me because I am working a minimum wage job
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
No offence to the OP, but the fact that his friend, who he mentions has a decent looking girlfriend and is working a dead end job and yet he is my age too, I assume he is implying that he doesn't have his **** together yet, because I don't either, for a while I was worried this would prevent me from getting laid but yet his success story shows it is possibleFortunateSon said:A proper mate would be happy for his mate having success.
You sound like one of those bitter women sounding off.