AFC chick... a guy's perspective this time.

[Play the Game]

I was supposed to go out with her tommorow, but i'm really thinkin' about ditching her. Now before you smack me over the head, hear me out.

She messages me everyday, whining about how bored she is.... and tries to setup more dates before our original date. She was online today, and wanted me to wake up early to have breakfast with her tommorow, after i politely refused she kept on whining to me about how she has nothing to do on a fri. Your typical AFC. I'm starting to understand why girls flake on guys who do that. I mean at first i wanted to get some... b/c she is pretty good looking, but the way shes acting is a reallllllly big turnoff.

Am i turning into a chick or what? lol

Tables have turned :crazy:
but, its not that great being on the winning team either.

 

[ryannath]

It sucks when they get all clingy, I know. Now you know that if you got in a relationship with her just how need and clingy she would be!

 

[Obsidian]

i don't mind clinginess all that much. it's better than the alternative extreme. Generally you can just blow her off when you don't want to see her and she'll still be dying to be with you when you're bored. And if she gets all obsessed with you, she'll rave about you to all the other girls she knows so you'll get social proof for if you decide to dump her later.

i probably wouldn't dump her if she's good-looking.

 

[Full Throttle]

Yea, it comes down to if she's hot or not. If she's hot, you can tolerate a little more of the clinginess. If she's average or below, no.

 

[Play the Game]

i don't mind clinginess all that much. it's better than the alternative extreme. Generally you can just blow her off when you don't want to see her and she'll still be dying to be with you when you're bored. And if she gets all obsessed with you, she'll rave about you to all the other girls she knows so you'll get social proof for if you decide to dump her later.

i probably wouldn't dump her if she's good-looking.

yea, i just keep her around for when im bored, like a chick would lead on an AFC.

I think the most important think to learn from this is:
girls aren't that hard to understand, if you can't understand em you're just too needy and pathetic. :flowers:

Grow some balls, respect yourself and start doing your own thing.