"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So I invited this girl over to myplace, we ordered pizza, then she helped me prepare some brownies. I had to play in a bball leauge that night so we did not get to finish them. i texted her the next day and said the brownies tasted good.

she replies" im glad i got the goods. u should try more. Im single!

Not sure what she meant by that. does she mean shes available and she wants me to pursue her more?

Or does she mean that she does not want to be in a relationship, i should try this more w/ other people.
wtf does she mean w/ this text?

brief about us, i have been hanging out w/ her for about a month, but i was taking things slowly, she thought i was not interested and she backed off a little, now i am stepping things up.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Your aloofness has payed off. She bit the hook now real her in. Take it slow though, she'll want to keep up with the anticipation and your coy demeanor.

It's working.
 
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u did good...

i think the above poster is spot on..
 
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thats good, a guess for once being a little clueless can work to your advantage.

Now she just recently moved into a new place. I was thinking of sending her a housewarming gift as bottle of wine and a paintbrush in a bag with a note "happy housewarmings." The paintbrush....she expressed how she wants to paint her place as currently the walls are white and lacking in life.

Thoughts as a gift? I believe is creative, she definately will have to remember.
I figure hey we can have a bottle of wine and I could help her paint in the future.
 
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It's not really recommended to give gifts like that
early on in the relationship.
Don't try and buy her affections.
Take her on a date and go for a kiss.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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actually let me correct that we have been hanging out for a couple of months, she just got back in town though after a vacation, things are starting to progress, still suggest otherwise? she hinted at she wants to be pampered.
 
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