Advice

[Jumpman23]

So I invited this girl over to myplace, we ordered pizza, then she helped me prepare some brownies. I had to play in a bball leauge that night so we did not get to finish them. i texted her the next day and said the brownies tasted good.

she replies" im glad i got the goods. u should try more. Im single!

Not sure what she meant by that. does she mean shes available and she wants me to pursue her more?

Or does she mean that she does not want to be in a relationship, i should try this more w/ other people.
wtf does she mean w/ this text?

brief about us, i have been hanging out w/ her for about a month, but i was taking things slowly, she thought i was not interested and she backed off a little, now i am stepping things up.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Your aloofness has payed off. She bit the hook now real her in. Take it slow though, she'll want to keep up with the anticipation and your coy demeanor.

It's working.

 

[sav]

u did good...

i think the above poster is spot on..

 

[Jumpman23]

thats good, a guess for once being a little clueless can work to your advantage.

Now she just recently moved into a new place. I was thinking of sending her a housewarming gift as bottle of wine and a paintbrush in a bag with a note "happy housewarmings." The paintbrush....she expressed how she wants to paint her place as currently the walls are white and lacking in life.

Thoughts as a gift? I believe is creative, she definately will have to remember.
I figure hey we can have a bottle of wine and I could help her paint in the future.

 

[JDA70]

It's not really recommended to give gifts like that
early on in the relationship.
Don't try and buy her affections.
Take her on a date and go for a kiss.

 

[Jumpman23]

actually let me correct that we have been hanging out for a couple of months, she just got back in town though after a vacation, things are starting to progress, still suggest otherwise? she hinted at she wants to be pampered.

 

[jesusrules]

I dont understand that either, but the more I think about it the more I think

shes hinting to you shes single and wants to be more than friends. Hey thats

what I think.