"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So I invited this girl over to myplace, we ordered pizza, then she helped me prepare some brownies. I had to play in a bball leauge that night so we did not get to finish them. i texted her the next day and said the brownies tasted good.

she replies" im glad i got the goods. u should try more. Im single!

Not sure what she meant by that. does she mean shes available and she wants me to pursue her more?

Or does she mean that she does not want to be in a relationship, i should try this more w/ other people.
wtf does she mean w/ this text?

brief about us, i have been hanging out w/ her for about a month, but i was taking things slowly, she thought i was not interested and she backed off a little, now i am stepping things up.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Your aloofness has payed off. She bit the hook now real her in. Take it slow though, she'll want to keep up with the anticipation and your coy demeanor.

It's working.
 
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u did good...

i think the above poster is spot on..
 
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thats good, a guess for once being a little clueless can work to your advantage.

Now she just recently moved into a new place. I was thinking of sending her a housewarming gift as bottle of wine and a paintbrush in a bag with a note "happy housewarmings." The paintbrush....she expressed how she wants to paint her place as currently the walls are white and lacking in life.

Thoughts as a gift? I believe is creative, she definately will have to remember.
I figure hey we can have a bottle of wine and I could help her paint in the future.
 
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It's not really recommended to give gifts like that
early on in the relationship.
Don't try and buy her affections.
Take her on a date and go for a kiss.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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actually let me correct that we have been hanging out for a couple of months, she just got back in town though after a vacation, things are starting to progress, still suggest otherwise? she hinted at she wants to be pampered.
 
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