Ok so theres this girl im bit keen on and things are progressing well. using c/f portraying lots of confidence and higher value. calls me gorgous now when she talks to me. out of the blue then she brings up this other guy. so im thinkin to seal the deal of inviting a hb11( and trust me when i say 11) out next weekend. plan being i know shell be working and the HB ill be with likes to shop where the chick i like works. Cant get more social proof then the 11 in my opinion. what are your thoughts. any help would be greatly appreciated
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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- Thread starter jocca
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Advice: Why is the girl you like NOT the extremely good looking chick? Chase that too - Why not? Also it strikes me that playing games to this degree could hurt. Why not just go out with the good looking girl and aim to have a good time - disregard what the other girl thinks, ignore her for the afternoon etc.
More advice: Remedial English classes. Urgently.
More advice: Remedial English classes. Urgently.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Yes, its quite weak, but he's "English" so you'll have to forgive him... Cup of tea ol'chap !!