Ok so theres this girl im bit keen on and things are progressing well. using c/f portraying lots of confidence and higher value. calls me gorgous now when she talks to me. out of the blue then she brings up this other guy. so im thinkin to seal the deal of inviting a hb11( and trust me when i say 11) out next weekend. plan being i know shell be working and the HB ill be with likes to shop where the chick i like works. Cant get more social proof then the 11 in my opinion. what are your thoughts. any help would be greatly appreciated
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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- Thread starter jocca
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Advice: Why is the girl you like NOT the extremely good looking chick? Chase that too - Why not? Also it strikes me that playing games to this degree could hurt. Why not just go out with the good looking girl and aim to have a good time - disregard what the other girl thinks, ignore her for the afternoon etc.
More advice: Remedial English classes. Urgently.
More advice: Remedial English classes. Urgently.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Yes, its quite weak, but he's "English" so you'll have to forgive him... Cup of tea ol'chap !!