Ok so theres this girl im bit keen on and things are progressing well. using c/f portraying lots of confidence and higher value. calls me gorgous now when she talks to me. out of the blue then she brings up this other guy. so im thinkin to seal the deal of inviting a hb11( and trust me when i say 11) out next weekend. plan being i know shell be working and the HB ill be with likes to shop where the chick i like works. Cant get more social proof then the 11 in my opinion. what are your thoughts. any help would be greatly appreciated
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Advice
- Thread starter jocca
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Advice: Why is the girl you like NOT the extremely good looking chick? Chase that too - Why not? Also it strikes me that playing games to this degree could hurt. Why not just go out with the good looking girl and aim to have a good time - disregard what the other girl thinks, ignore her for the afternoon etc.
More advice: Remedial English classes. Urgently.
More advice: Remedial English classes. Urgently.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Yes, its quite weak, but he's "English" so you'll have to forgive him... Cup of tea ol'chap !!