"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Aesthetix29

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Hey! So my FWB messaged me earlier to see if I wanted to go round hers for tea and to stay over .. I agreed, then about an hour later she messaged me asking if I fancied going to town instead as she's just been invited by a few friends etc.. So I agreed as its Friday after all ... She said to be at hers for 8 as they were leaving then ... So I got there at 8.10 .. Looked through the window and knocked no answer .. So I figured I missed them ... So I message her and she says she was in the shower and didn't hear me and apologised .. By this time I'm back home and slightly annoyed .. So I kept calm and said no worries ... And left it there. Now this wasn't a date as she my FB and have banged her many times, was this disrespectful to me or completely my fault and being slightly late, I just need to play it cool .. As I've made other plans now anyway.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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marmel75

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Aesthetix29 said:
Hey! So my FWB messaged me earlier to see if I wanted to go round hers for tea and to stay over .. I agreed, then about an hour later she messaged me asking if I fancied going to town instead as she's just been invited by a few friends etc.. So I agreed as its Friday after all ... She said to be at hers for 8 as they were leaving then ... So I got there at 8.10 .. Looked through the window and knocked no answer .. So I figured I missed them ... So I message her and she says she was in the shower and didn't hear me and apologised .. By this time I'm back home and slightly annoyed .. So I kept calm and said no worries ... And left it there. Now this wasn't a date as she my FB and have banged her many times, was this disrespectful to me or completely my fault and being slightly late, I just need to play it cool .. As I've made other plans now anyway.
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Should have just messaged her while you were there to save this thread, lol...

I wouldn't put too much into it, just continue as normal...maybe punish her by fvcking her hard in the ass for this last mishap
 
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Disrespect? Your fault? What the fvck? Why are you looking for someone to blame? Stuff like this just happens. People do figure out they'll take showers while they wait, people do struggle to hear stuff when in the shower.
 
kronreiff

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You were late and she went on with her business, and you should have too. Simple.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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2Rocky

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1) You were late to arrive by 10 minutes. Price you pay.
2) She didn't disrespect you.
3) Carry on as nothing happened.
4) Show up on time next time.
 
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The good news is that she was taking a shower. Nobody wants to go anywhere with a stinky chick.

The bad news is that you are digging way to deep into your emotional playpen over this whole situation.

Seems you're a bit more attached to your FWB then you lead us to believe.
 
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