"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Aesthetix29

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Hey! So my FWB messaged me earlier to see if I wanted to go round hers for tea and to stay over .. I agreed, then about an hour later she messaged me asking if I fancied going to town instead as she's just been invited by a few friends etc.. So I agreed as its Friday after all ... She said to be at hers for 8 as they were leaving then ... So I got there at 8.10 .. Looked through the window and knocked no answer .. So I figured I missed them ... So I message her and she says she was in the shower and didn't hear me and apologised .. By this time I'm back home and slightly annoyed .. So I kept calm and said no worries ... And left it there. Now this wasn't a date as she my FB and have banged her many times, was this disrespectful to me or completely my fault and being slightly late, I just need to play it cool .. As I've made other plans now anyway.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

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Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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marmel75

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Aesthetix29 said:
Hey! So my FWB messaged me earlier to see if I wanted to go round hers for tea and to stay over .. I agreed, then about an hour later she messaged me asking if I fancied going to town instead as she's just been invited by a few friends etc.. So I agreed as its Friday after all ... She said to be at hers for 8 as they were leaving then ... So I got there at 8.10 .. Looked through the window and knocked no answer .. So I figured I missed them ... So I message her and she says she was in the shower and didn't hear me and apologised .. By this time I'm back home and slightly annoyed .. So I kept calm and said no worries ... And left it there. Now this wasn't a date as she my FB and have banged her many times, was this disrespectful to me or completely my fault and being slightly late, I just need to play it cool .. As I've made other plans now anyway.
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Should have just messaged her while you were there to save this thread, lol...

I wouldn't put too much into it, just continue as normal...maybe punish her by fvcking her hard in the ass for this last mishap
 
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Disrespect? Your fault? What the fvck? Why are you looking for someone to blame? Stuff like this just happens. People do figure out they'll take showers while they wait, people do struggle to hear stuff when in the shower.
 
kronreiff

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You were late and she went on with her business, and you should have too. Simple.
 

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1) You were late to arrive by 10 minutes. Price you pay.
2) She didn't disrespect you.
3) Carry on as nothing happened.
4) Show up on time next time.
 
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The good news is that she was taking a shower. Nobody wants to go anywhere with a stinky chick.

The bad news is that you are digging way to deep into your emotional playpen over this whole situation.

Seems you're a bit more attached to your FWB then you lead us to believe.
 
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