“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Advice on how to play it after successful first date

bobafatt

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 30, 2015
Messages
91
Reaction score
43
Went real well, got on great. Loads of kissing through the night. Had to boot after about 3 hours as was working a night shift. My question to you lot is how you play from here on.

Wait for her to contact me and set up the next date when she does?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

marmel75

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 4, 2012
Messages
7,175
Reaction score
5,571
There is no "play". Anytime I hear this type of thing I know you are not where you need to be. You do what you want to do. When you are not desperate and have options it doesnt matter what you do, you will be fine. Whwn you have no options and are trying to follow rules you will have limited success.

You need to strive to stop worrying about this type of stuff. If you want to contact her contact her. If you want to wait then wait. Honestly the first thing you should do is set up dates with 2 other new women.
 

bobafatt

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 30, 2015
Messages
91
Reaction score
43
haha keep the fingers in many pies, i see.

Overthinking can get you into more trouble then its worth, ill get in touch with a few other squeezes and see what there plans are this week
 

marmel75

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 4, 2012
Messages
7,175
Reaction score
5,571
haha keep the fingers in many pies, i see.

Overthinking can get you into more trouble then its worth, ill get in touch with a few other squeezes and see what there plans are this week
Early on you gotta give the woman time to chase.
 

Chi Town

Banned
Joined
Sep 12, 2018
Messages
661
Reaction score
694
Age
33
Wait a couple days then give her a call but don't ask for a second date yet, just give her a call to see how she's doing then get off the phone, next time you contact her then you set up another date. Usually works for me
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Dash Riprock

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 16, 2005
Messages
1,830
Reaction score
3,661
Location
Mile High City, USA
If you want to see her, you're the MAN, YOU call and set things up. None of this waiting for her to call or "chase" bull s*hit. Be direct, assertive, and proactive. NEVER wait around. If she's not interested, fine, move on. Just be cool and don't overdo it, and DO NOT chase her. You ask out, and that's it. No neediness. You're the prize, act like it.
 
Top