"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dustmuffin

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I was flaked by a okcupid girl. I had her number didn't contact. I showed up waited 15 mins and left.

This morning I get a message saying she forgot and wondered if I forgot too. Since I didn't contact her.

Do I

1. Ignore

2. Say I was there and not my job to remind her of date and see what she comes back with?

3. Say I forgot too?

Or something else?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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if a girl actually forgets about a date it means her life is a disaster don't invite the chaos in buddy. and if it makes you feel any better I actually had a booty call flake last night. Net girl starts sending me sexy pics. says come on over every indication is that she's DTF. goes radio silent and then rings me up to tell me that she isn't that type of girl. WTF looking at that pic with the pierced tongue all the way out in lingerie and a couple of tatts I thought she was a strong contender for slvt of the week. modern chicks - mate you just have to treat them as comic relief.
 
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if a girl actually forgets about a date it means her life is a disaster don't invite the chaos in buddy. and if it makes you feel any better I actually had a booty call flake last night. Net girl starts sending me sexy pics. says come on over every indication is that she's DTF. goes radio silent and then rings me up to tell me that she isn't that type of girl. WTF looking at that pic with the pierced tongue all the way out in lingerie and a couple of tatts I thought she was a strong contender for slvt of the week. modern chicks - mate you just have to treat them as comic relief.
Not bothered by flake. They happen. She is in medical sales. She said her phone was screwed up and couldn't contact me. She apologized several times too. Load of bs. She just forgot. Anyway have two new girls I'm talking to on okcupid. I also signed up on match. Girls are like a bus....new one comes along in 20 mins.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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