Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I own the apartment, I pay a mortgage on it. You're right though, that doesn't mean I couldn't downsize. However the difference in price between 1 bedroom and 2 bedroom is quite insignificant. 1 bedrooms here are a bit of a scam.
Gotcha, missed that part about you owning it, I assumed most apartments are rentals.
The rental income covers 60% of my mortgage + bills + extra charges
This tells me you are a control freak. Your best bet would be someone who has their own home outside the city but needs a place to spend the night during the week while working in town.
Consider that percentage out of your disposable income and see if it makes sense.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
