"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheBaconator

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I went out to a bar Friday night, got really wasted and hooked up with a couple girls got a couple numbers. Followed through with calling up and trying to set dates and one came through and I told her i'd call her tonight to set up something for tmw.

Now the problem is I was very wasted so I don't member what this chick looks like, so I don't wanna set up a real date like the movies or something because she could end up being busted then I'd feel like an idiot for the whole night.

So I wanna tell her to come over and watch a movie with me, only I don't have a car and she lives about a half hour away. What's a good way to talk her into coming to me? Should I offer to meet her somewhere, or is that AFC?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TheBaconator

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Anyone?? I need to call this chick soon and I don't know how I should set this up.
 
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Telos

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Just call her and act apprehensive. Tell her you don't think it's going to work out and try to play it off ... then slide in a "Unless you have any way of getting to me, I can't go out tonight."

If she has high IL she will bite.
 
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I think setting something up is the right move. If she's busted, simply leave or tell her to leave. You have enough balls to do that right?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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