“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TheBaconator

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I went out to a bar Friday night, got really wasted and hooked up with a couple girls got a couple numbers. Followed through with calling up and trying to set dates and one came through and I told her i'd call her tonight to set up something for tmw.

Now the problem is I was very wasted so I don't member what this chick looks like, so I don't wanna set up a real date like the movies or something because she could end up being busted then I'd feel like an idiot for the whole night.

So I wanna tell her to come over and watch a movie with me, only I don't have a car and she lives about a half hour away. What's a good way to talk her into coming to me? Should I offer to meet her somewhere, or is that AFC?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheBaconator

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Anyone?? I need to call this chick soon and I don't know how I should set this up.
 

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Just call her and act apprehensive. Tell her you don't think it's going to work out and try to play it off ... then slide in a "Unless you have any way of getting to me, I can't go out tonight."

If she has high IL she will bite.
 

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I think setting something up is the right move. If she's busted, simply leave or tell her to leave. You have enough balls to do that right?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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