"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheBaconator

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I went out to a bar Friday night, got really wasted and hooked up with a couple girls got a couple numbers. Followed through with calling up and trying to set dates and one came through and I told her i'd call her tonight to set up something for tmw.

Now the problem is I was very wasted so I don't member what this chick looks like, so I don't wanna set up a real date like the movies or something because she could end up being busted then I'd feel like an idiot for the whole night.

So I wanna tell her to come over and watch a movie with me, only I don't have a car and she lives about a half hour away. What's a good way to talk her into coming to me? Should I offer to meet her somewhere, or is that AFC?
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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TheBaconator

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Anyone?? I need to call this chick soon and I don't know how I should set this up.
 

Telos

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Just call her and act apprehensive. Tell her you don't think it's going to work out and try to play it off ... then slide in a "Unless you have any way of getting to me, I can't go out tonight."

If she has high IL she will bite.
 

WC2

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I think setting something up is the right move. If she's busted, simply leave or tell her to leave. You have enough balls to do that right?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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