Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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TheBaconator

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I went out to a bar Friday night, got really wasted and hooked up with a couple girls got a couple numbers. Followed through with calling up and trying to set dates and one came through and I told her i'd call her tonight to set up something for tmw.

Now the problem is I was very wasted so I don't member what this chick looks like, so I don't wanna set up a real date like the movies or something because she could end up being busted then I'd feel like an idiot for the whole night.

So I wanna tell her to come over and watch a movie with me, only I don't have a car and she lives about a half hour away. What's a good way to talk her into coming to me? Should I offer to meet her somewhere, or is that AFC?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheBaconator

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Anyone?? I need to call this chick soon and I don't know how I should set this up.
 

Telos

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Just call her and act apprehensive. Tell her you don't think it's going to work out and try to play it off ... then slide in a "Unless you have any way of getting to me, I can't go out tonight."

If she has high IL she will bite.
 

WC2

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I think setting something up is the right move. If she's busted, simply leave or tell her to leave. You have enough balls to do that right?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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