"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Advice needed with a Russian Girl I met

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So, I met a girl in a dance club. I met her on the dance floor, and began to dance with her. We danced face to face, bumping and grinding. I chatted with her a bit and gathered some information. It turns out she goes to the same school as I do and is 2 years older then me (shes 25). Neither her or her friend believe my age, and they think I am 19 (I look younger then i am).

She had a couple drinks to many. When it was time do go home, I did some “pu$$y-footing” and not directly ask for her contact. I asked for her email, which I forgot, jeeze! Still can’t get over that dumb move. She told me what I asked for, but had this unsure, smiley look on her face when she was about to provide the information I wanted. In the end I said nice meeting you and I have to go. Can I still recover from the pu$$y-footing advances i made if I see her at school? Any suggestions on what to say? Maybe a Russian line?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Go out and meet other women, and don't worry about this one.

Otherwise, you'll start obsessing over her, like you are now, and you will come off as being super-creepy when you see her again.

Go out and meet, date and f*** other women, and maybe you'll run into her again when you're not being so needy.

Oh yeah, only get a number after you've tried to kiss and f*** her. A number should be your last option, not your first.
 

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Derek Flint said:
Go out and meet other women, and don't worry about this one.

Otherwise, you'll start obsessing over her, like you are now, and you will come off as being super-creepy when you see her again.

Go out and meet, date and f*** other women, and maybe you'll run into her again when you're not being so needy.

Oh yeah, only get a number after you've tried to kiss and f*** her. A number should be your last option, not your first.
Good point about going out and getting other women, and not obsessing. But the number thingy, how the heck am I gonna contact them after the initial meeting?
 

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She was probably so drunk, she doesn't even remember.
 

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Derek Flint said:
She was probably so drunk, she doesn't even remember.
LOL, yeah maybe. She did lose her balance at one point.BTW still dont get you "phone number response"?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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