"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Advice needed with a Russian Girl I met

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So, I met a girl in a dance club. I met her on the dance floor, and began to dance with her. We danced face to face, bumping and grinding. I chatted with her a bit and gathered some information. It turns out she goes to the same school as I do and is 2 years older then me (shes 25). Neither her or her friend believe my age, and they think I am 19 (I look younger then i am).

She had a couple drinks to many. When it was time do go home, I did some “pu$$y-footing” and not directly ask for her contact. I asked for her email, which I forgot, jeeze! Still can’t get over that dumb move. She told me what I asked for, but had this unsure, smiley look on her face when she was about to provide the information I wanted. In the end I said nice meeting you and I have to go. Can I still recover from the pu$$y-footing advances i made if I see her at school? Any suggestions on what to say? Maybe a Russian line?

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Derek Flint

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Go out and meet other women, and don't worry about this one.

Otherwise, you'll start obsessing over her, like you are now, and you will come off as being super-creepy when you see her again.

Go out and meet, date and f*** other women, and maybe you'll run into her again when you're not being so needy.

Oh yeah, only get a number after you've tried to kiss and f*** her. A number should be your last option, not your first.
 

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Derek Flint said:
Go out and meet other women, and don't worry about this one.

Otherwise, you'll start obsessing over her, like you are now, and you will come off as being super-creepy when you see her again.

Go out and meet, date and f*** other women, and maybe you'll run into her again when you're not being so needy.

Oh yeah, only get a number after you've tried to kiss and f*** her. A number should be your last option, not your first.
Good point about going out and getting other women, and not obsessing. But the number thingy, how the heck am I gonna contact them after the initial meeting?
 

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She was probably so drunk, she doesn't even remember.
 

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Derek Flint said:
She was probably so drunk, she doesn't even remember.
LOL, yeah maybe. She did lose her balance at one point.BTW still dont get you "phone number response"?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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