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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

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Advice needed with a Russian Girl I met

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So, I met a girl in a dance club. I met her on the dance floor, and began to dance with her. We danced face to face, bumping and grinding. I chatted with her a bit and gathered some information. It turns out she goes to the same school as I do and is 2 years older then me (shes 25). Neither her or her friend believe my age, and they think I am 19 (I look younger then i am).

She had a couple drinks to many. When it was time do go home, I did some “pu$$y-footing” and not directly ask for her contact. I asked for her email, which I forgot, jeeze! Still can’t get over that dumb move. She told me what I asked for, but had this unsure, smiley look on her face when she was about to provide the information I wanted. In the end I said nice meeting you and I have to go. Can I still recover from the pu$$y-footing advances i made if I see her at school? Any suggestions on what to say? Maybe a Russian line?

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Go out and meet other women, and don't worry about this one.

Otherwise, you'll start obsessing over her, like you are now, and you will come off as being super-creepy when you see her again.

Go out and meet, date and f*** other women, and maybe you'll run into her again when you're not being so needy.

Oh yeah, only get a number after you've tried to kiss and f*** her. A number should be your last option, not your first.
 

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Derek Flint said:
Go out and meet other women, and don't worry about this one.

Otherwise, you'll start obsessing over her, like you are now, and you will come off as being super-creepy when you see her again.

Go out and meet, date and f*** other women, and maybe you'll run into her again when you're not being so needy.

Oh yeah, only get a number after you've tried to kiss and f*** her. A number should be your last option, not your first.
Good point about going out and getting other women, and not obsessing. But the number thingy, how the heck am I gonna contact them after the initial meeting?
 

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She was probably so drunk, she doesn't even remember.
 

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Derek Flint said:
She was probably so drunk, she doesn't even remember.
LOL, yeah maybe. She did lose her balance at one point.BTW still dont get you "phone number response"?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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