"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Advice needed with a Russian Girl I met

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So, I met a girl in a dance club. I met her on the dance floor, and began to dance with her. We danced face to face, bumping and grinding. I chatted with her a bit and gathered some information. It turns out she goes to the same school as I do and is 2 years older then me (shes 25). Neither her or her friend believe my age, and they think I am 19 (I look younger then i am).

She had a couple drinks to many. When it was time do go home, I did some “pu$$y-footing” and not directly ask for her contact. I asked for her email, which I forgot, jeeze! Still can’t get over that dumb move. She told me what I asked for, but had this unsure, smiley look on her face when she was about to provide the information I wanted. In the end I said nice meeting you and I have to go. Can I still recover from the pu$$y-footing advances i made if I see her at school? Any suggestions on what to say? Maybe a Russian line?

Cheers
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Go out and meet other women, and don't worry about this one.

Otherwise, you'll start obsessing over her, like you are now, and you will come off as being super-creepy when you see her again.

Go out and meet, date and f*** other women, and maybe you'll run into her again when you're not being so needy.

Oh yeah, only get a number after you've tried to kiss and f*** her. A number should be your last option, not your first.
 

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Derek Flint said:
Go out and meet other women, and don't worry about this one.

Otherwise, you'll start obsessing over her, like you are now, and you will come off as being super-creepy when you see her again.

Go out and meet, date and f*** other women, and maybe you'll run into her again when you're not being so needy.

Oh yeah, only get a number after you've tried to kiss and f*** her. A number should be your last option, not your first.
Good point about going out and getting other women, and not obsessing. But the number thingy, how the heck am I gonna contact them after the initial meeting?
 

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She was probably so drunk, she doesn't even remember.
 

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Derek Flint said:
She was probably so drunk, she doesn't even remember.
LOL, yeah maybe. She did lose her balance at one point.BTW still dont get you "phone number response"?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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