"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey taking Adderall isn't much different than doing meth. I've done both. I don't use any amphetamines and won't because I just kind of don't like them. I won't touch opioites. I can pass a drug test right now.
Good man, I’m happy and proud, we’ve known each other 3 years through this site and I don’t know you, but you being clean makes me happy and you need to stay that way.

love you bro
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good man, I’m happy and proud, we’ve known each other 3 years through this site and I don’t know you, but you being clean makes me happy and you need to stay that way.

love you bro
How was the coke? Did it look like fish scales?
 
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I've been diagnosed with ADHD. I always knew I had it, but I just thought the symptoms were mild and I could persevere. It's taken my lack of concentration with my business to finally seek help and I've been prescribed medication. I've extremely against medication (hence me putting this off for so long) but I have no choice.

My question is does anyone have any experience with this? Personally, friends/family? Any homeopathic routes I could take that work? I literally have every single symptom in the book and surprised I've made it this far without any intervention.
Diagnosed at your age? Bullsh1t.
 
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Point being, you're around my age, and they were trigger happy with diagnosing us with ADD as kids. I knew several kids on ritalin.

Knowing what I know now, they were just doing their best to suppress masculine energy
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You got ADHD...

That's what confused me for the longest time, in that, I can't place you in a single profile, one moment u r there and the next you display another which by right is impossible for a normal male.

So you forced learned an inherent trait.
Water, my friend.
 

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dm me anytime man it can be frustrating i subscribe to alot of youtube videos that help why adderall seems over rated
 

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I've been diagnosed with ADHD. I always knew I had it, but I just thought the symptoms were mild and I could persevere. It's taken my lack of concentration with my business to finally seek help and I've been prescribed medication. I've extremely against medication (hence me putting this off for so long) but I have no choice.

My question is does anyone have any experience with this? Personally, friends/family? Any homeopathic routes I could take that work? I literally have every single symptom in the book and surprised I've made it this far without any intervention.
Ive struggled with that as well do you plan to go back to school
 

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ADHD is diabetes for the brain. It's an impairment of your executive function.

Easy to burn sugar quickly sent to your brain ike Gatorade is actually good for you. I take Gatorade everytime I have some mental exercise to do (work,Math).

About the drugs, they will change your life... and you will have the "if only I had known".

However... they are drug that need caliber... it was quite a ride at first to find the appropriate dosage.

I'm on Vyvanse 40mg.

It's also something you can't mix with alcohol or other drugs, and we'll you have to use it often.

When I am on Vyvanse... I turn into the GOGO doer mode, goes through stuff at freakish speed and without mistakes... the side effects are similar to cocaine (sleep deprivation, heart pulse, cut of apetite).

The timer suggestion is great.
Also, get used to " ToDolist" and next to each items insert the numbers of minutes you'll take for each.

Another tip: do A LOT of sport
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I've been diagnosed with ADHD. I always knew I had it, but I just thought the symptoms were mild and I could persevere. It's taken my lack of concentration with my business to finally seek help and I've been prescribed medication. I've extremely against medication (hence me putting this off for so long) but I have no choice.

My question is does anyone have any experience with this? Personally, friends/family? Any homeopathic routes I could take that work? I literally have every single symptom in the book and surprised I've made it this far without any intervention.
how did you do in high school?
 
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