Murk
Master Don Juan
Good man, I’m happy and proud, we’ve known each other 3 years through this site and I don’t know you, but you being clean makes me happy and you need to stay that way.
love you bro
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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love you bro
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How was the coke? Did it look like fish scales?
I did? then I......Lmao
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user43770
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Diagnosed at your age? Bullsh1t.
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user43770
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Point being, you're around my age, and they were trigger happy with diagnosing us with ADD as kids. I knew several kids on ritalin.
Knowing what I know now, they were just doing their best to suppress masculine energy
Knowing what I know now, they were just doing their best to suppress masculine energy
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Just search "digital timer" on Amazon. They have tons of them for 6 or 7 bucks.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Water, my friend.
Ive struggled with that as well do you plan to go back to school
Von
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ADHD is diabetes for the brain. It's an impairment of your executive function.
Easy to burn sugar quickly sent to your brain ike Gatorade is actually good for you. I take Gatorade everytime I have some mental exercise to do (work,Math).
About the drugs, they will change your life... and you will have the "if only I had known".
However... they are drug that need caliber... it was quite a ride at first to find the appropriate dosage.
I'm on Vyvanse 40mg.
It's also something you can't mix with alcohol or other drugs, and we'll you have to use it often.
When I am on Vyvanse... I turn into the GOGO doer mode, goes through stuff at freakish speed and without mistakes... the side effects are similar to cocaine (sleep deprivation, heart pulse, cut of apetite).
The timer suggestion is great.
Also, get used to " ToDolist" and next to each items insert the numbers of minutes you'll take for each.
Another tip: do A LOT of sport
Easy to burn sugar quickly sent to your brain ike Gatorade is actually good for you. I take Gatorade everytime I have some mental exercise to do (work,Math).
About the drugs, they will change your life... and you will have the "if only I had known".
However... they are drug that need caliber... it was quite a ride at first to find the appropriate dosage.
I'm on Vyvanse 40mg.
It's also something you can't mix with alcohol or other drugs, and we'll you have to use it often.
When I am on Vyvanse... I turn into the GOGO doer mode, goes through stuff at freakish speed and without mistakes... the side effects are similar to cocaine (sleep deprivation, heart pulse, cut of apetite).
The timer suggestion is great.
Also, get used to " ToDolist" and next to each items insert the numbers of minutes you'll take for each.
Another tip: do A LOT of sport
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
how did you do in high school?