Murk
Master Don Juan
Good man, I’m happy and proud, we’ve known each other 3 years through this site and I don’t know you, but you being clean makes me happy and you need to stay that way.
love you bro
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ADHD
- Thread starter Murk
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love you bro
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How was the coke? Did it look like fish scales?
I did? then I......Lmao
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user43770
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Diagnosed at your age? Bullsh1t.
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user43770
Guest
Point being, you're around my age, and they were trigger happy with diagnosing us with ADD as kids. I knew several kids on ritalin.
Knowing what I know now, they were just doing their best to suppress masculine energy
Knowing what I know now, they were just doing their best to suppress masculine energy
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Just search "digital timer" on Amazon. They have tons of them for 6 or 7 bucks.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Water, my friend.
Ive struggled with that as well do you plan to go back to school
Von
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ADHD is diabetes for the brain. It's an impairment of your executive function.
Easy to burn sugar quickly sent to your brain ike Gatorade is actually good for you. I take Gatorade everytime I have some mental exercise to do (work,Math).
About the drugs, they will change your life... and you will have the "if only I had known".
However... they are drug that need caliber... it was quite a ride at first to find the appropriate dosage.
I'm on Vyvanse 40mg.
It's also something you can't mix with alcohol or other drugs, and we'll you have to use it often.
When I am on Vyvanse... I turn into the GOGO doer mode, goes through stuff at freakish speed and without mistakes... the side effects are similar to cocaine (sleep deprivation, heart pulse, cut of apetite).
The timer suggestion is great.
Also, get used to " ToDolist" and next to each items insert the numbers of minutes you'll take for each.
Another tip: do A LOT of sport
Easy to burn sugar quickly sent to your brain ike Gatorade is actually good for you. I take Gatorade everytime I have some mental exercise to do (work,Math).
About the drugs, they will change your life... and you will have the "if only I had known".
However... they are drug that need caliber... it was quite a ride at first to find the appropriate dosage.
I'm on Vyvanse 40mg.
It's also something you can't mix with alcohol or other drugs, and we'll you have to use it often.
When I am on Vyvanse... I turn into the GOGO doer mode, goes through stuff at freakish speed and without mistakes... the side effects are similar to cocaine (sleep deprivation, heart pulse, cut of apetite).
The timer suggestion is great.
Also, get used to " ToDolist" and next to each items insert the numbers of minutes you'll take for each.
Another tip: do A LOT of sport
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
how did you do in high school?