"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Adding "girlfriends" of guys you hate on Facebook as friends.

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TheLoner

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Hi,

You know some guys that you hate or don't talk to.
I want to punk them. Would adding their "girlfriends"
to facebook cause a major stir?

Would they find out about this and potentially be upset.

I recently added the girlfriend of "Bradley" to my facebook,
the guy who defriended me from list.

Bradley is on my soccer team.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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plate's_empty

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After they accept your friends request, don't forget to send them pictures of your Dong.
 
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Uncharted

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If you're doing this out of spite it's not very DJ of you. It just kind of shows that it's bothering you.

On the other hand, if you happen to meet a girl who is one of their girlfriends, feel free to flirt with her in person.
 
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is it ok to add girlfriends of guys on your list
that you never talk to?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Zerro

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Uncharted said:
If you're doing this out of spite it's not very DJ of you. It just kind of shows that it's bothering you.
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Yeah, a Don Juan should be above this sort of childishness.
 
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Personally that sounds weak dude. You're not a girl...you're a man and men don't stir up drama.
 
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