"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Adding "girlfriends" of guys you hate on Facebook as friends.

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TheLoner

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Hi,

You know some guys that you hate or don't talk to.
I want to punk them. Would adding their "girlfriends"
to facebook cause a major stir?

Would they find out about this and potentially be upset.

I recently added the girlfriend of "Bradley" to my facebook,
the guy who defriended me from list.

Bradley is on my soccer team.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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plate's_empty

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After they accept your friends request, don't forget to send them pictures of your Dong.
 
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Uncharted

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If you're doing this out of spite it's not very DJ of you. It just kind of shows that it's bothering you.

On the other hand, if you happen to meet a girl who is one of their girlfriends, feel free to flirt with her in person.
 
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TheLoner

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is it ok to add girlfriends of guys on your list
that you never talk to?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Zerro

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Uncharted said:
If you're doing this out of spite it's not very DJ of you. It just kind of shows that it's bothering you.
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Yeah, a Don Juan should be above this sort of childishness.
 
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RedZone

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Personally that sounds weak dude. You're not a girl...you're a man and men don't stir up drama.
 
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